I remember January 1st last year, sitting near the pool at our hotel in Mérida (although it was about 60 degrees) and struggling to write my first post of the year on my iPad. It was important that I do it because I was convinced if I started the year out running, the motivation would stay throughout the year. That was one of the many lessons that 2012 taught me – motivation and doing are very different things.
I can’t say that it wasn’t a very good year. As always, I was blessed with things that I didn’t even know that I wanted. After visiting
the snow friends in Boston and moving for the 3rd time in just as many years, I sort of rediscovered Caracas and realized that I was beginning to take its beauty for granted. Then for the summer, we went on a travel spree and visited Quito for the first time. The best part of the summer though was introducing my kids to my huge family in California.
The fall, which is always my favorite time of the year was more productive than I planned *yay, me!*. Although elections were expected to turn the country upside down, it was one of the best displays of the democratic process that I’ve ever witnessed. I then participated in National Novel Writing Month and was finally able to make huge strides with a book I started writing in 2010.
When I wasn’t dealing with the normal trepidations of being a Haitian-American living in Caracas, I actually had several epiphanies:
* Sometimes things (people, places, cultures) can only be classified as different. Not better than, less than, but different. In these cases, it is absolutely futile to try and argue said thing as more desirable or more valuable. Just accept the differences and if you’re fortunate enough to be able to choose, make your choice and keep moving.
* Unfortunately, bad people are a universal evil. I don’t think one culture has the upper hand in shortcomings. You will find North Americans and South Americans who lie a lot. Just as you will find Asians and Europeans who are very unreliable. On a personal level, it doesn’t matter what is socially acceptable, it matters what you are willing to accept.
* My family, the whole crazy lot of them, is awesome!
Okay, so maybe they weren’t really epiphanies. But, I’m tucking them away – especially that last one – in that deep corner of my mind to be used whenever I start letting the petty things get to me.
Hope all of you have started 2013 how you planned/wished/desired and here’s to another great year!
Note: This picture is of a natural pool in Morrocoy – which is where we spent the New Year.